I was a little nervous about blogging at first, but I found a few good ladies via Twitter and their blogs and I could relate to them so well and they gave me the courage to start. I ran it by my husband and he thought it might help me with my thoughts. So my name is Sarah, I'm 26 years old and I've only been married for a year. But we dated for 2 years before. We are in a DD marriage. I knew he believed in a man should lead before we got married. His father is also the same way, which he has admitted he heard his dad spanking his mother one night when he was 14. The whole time we dated, he as very dominate. He made choices where we would eat and h even wasn't happy at times when I was late getting ready for a date. When he proposed to me, he told me how he thought a marriage should be. Old fashioned and taken from the bible about women submitting to their husbands. He said he just didn't like women who were disrespectful to their husbands and "wore the pants" in the marriage. He did explain that should I choose to not follow his rules than I would be disciplined through spanking and maybe corner time or grounding. At first I wasn't sure I could live like this. But the more time I spent with him, the more I realized I was so in love with him and really couldn't see myself without him.
Has being submissive to my husband been easy? No. He is pretty consistent and strict. The first spanking he gave me I was devastated over. I was so afraid before it. I cried for 2 hours and he held me afterwards and comforted me. (In another post I'll make a entry about my first spanking.) After I was finally composed the next day, I was sore but I felt closer to my husband. I can't explain how I love that he won't let me walk all over him. I think real men shouldn't let their wives walk all over them and yell and tell them exactly what they will do and my husband has said the same. Do I like the spankings? NO I do not. But I want my marriage to last and I do think DD makes a marriage better. I kinda think if DD were used in all marriages the divorce rate would be lower. My husband said if men would discipline their wives when they were disrespectful and damaged the marriage then a lot of marriages would last so much longer. The pain is better than a failed marriage or me yelling at him and making him feel like crap or pushing him away or hurting myself.
The problem with the US today my husband said is that our society won't let men be men or women be women. They have taught us that women should be the boss and make all the say in a marriage. This lifestyle gives great special bonds also with a husband and wife. Just too bad we don't have many real men in the world today. I hope to be back on later and I'll blog some more. I do not have a limit as long as I have gotten my chores done and I've done what he has told me to do and has no plans for us. Hope to meet new people also who are like minded. I've come across a few people via twitter and in real life that really down grades submission. Two have recently really put me and my husband down. I guess he was just afraid of his wife lol which is sad to me.
