They could Use a Spanking!

The other day my husband and I were in WalMart, and saw this couple having a huge arguement. The wife apparently thought they needed a better coffeepot and her husband was saying the one they had was just fine. She told him "well know what? If you don't want any coffee than don't make any from my damn pot and I am getting this!!" My husband was appalled that they would argue like that in public. But honestly we have seen it before. I know better than to do something like that. If that was me I wouldn't be able to sit for days. And I see it worse on facebook and twitter. I see wives bad talking their husbands and flat out admitting to disrespecting them and ordering them around and having it ALL their way.

I don't get where people these days feels that is ok. And yes my husband has said "maybe if he took charge and put her over his knee and spanked her til she couldn't sit for a while he would get more respect." I know that I feel so much when I have gotten disciplined from my husband. That he won't take me degrading him and putting him down. No DD probably won't work for every couple but I think every couple should maybe give it a chance and I don't understand why more men don't want to do it and have respect.

And I have tried to point out to friends what they could do to help their marriage but then bash me for how I live my marriage. I think deep down some people who bash our lifestyle don't fully understand it or deep down want it.

I just never think a wife ordering her husband around is accecptable and the husband shouldn't have to take it or be afraid of his wife. I wish they all would know submission is great and not bad. 

Also I don't agree that just because a woman has been through bad stuff gives her an excuse to disrespect her husband. Being in bad moods or hurt for another reason is never a reason to take it out on our spouses. And again I don't think a man should allow it, and it will help his wife more to take control or not let her push him away or disrespect him.

I also have a bedtime because my husband wants me to get plenty of sleep and I am not allowed ot sleep too late, past 9am because he wants me to be more productive during the day. I have friends who do nothing but watch tv all day and don't clean at all while their husbands do all the work. I don't think that is right. I think it is our place to pull our own and have different roles at home. He appreciates everything I do also. Especially when I make him his favorite dinner without him asking for it. And seeing my husband happy is a great feeling to me.

Attacks on TTWD

I was gonna make a post on more of the beginning of my relaionship and how DD was for me. But I just felt the need to rant. I am on twitter and I had posted a few things about how I thought women should be submissive to their husbands but I soon got attacked but a female. Yeah I know her in my everyday life. We were aquaintances, my husband used to work with her ex. We tried to be friends with them, but my husband didn't really like how she talked to her man. She really didn't respect him and seemed like she bossed him around. They ended up breaking up and she started dating someone new. She found me on twitter and started bashing me. Now her new man has taking to bashing me for letting my husband have the lead. Her man is in the army so he thinks I'm undoing what he "fought for and almost died for women's freedom not to submit to their husbands". Ok thing is I feel women should if their husband is trustworthy of submission. And I think that is why there are so many divorce rates in the US because of women now not letting men be men.

I mean she brags about how she makes him put her first and boss him around. Ok fine, do I agree? No, but I don't get why people have to attack us. And just yesterday his daughter attacked me for no reason also. I never did mention her, I only said that his girlfriend should leave how I live alone and I felt sorry for men who can't be men. Has anyone else had the same experience with people like this? I'm just tired of how society has the gender roles. I don't like to be in a grocery store and see a woman yelling at her husband or telling him off or what HE is gonna do. I won't say submission came easy to me because it didn't and like I said I do not like the discipline but I do see how close it makes us and how much better my marriage is for it. I'm happy letting my husband be  MAN. I'm sorry all men aren't allowed to be MEN.

Yeah my husband is strict and he needs to be. If he wasn't I wouldn't have the respect for him I do. TO me it makes a marriage more stronger.

HI!!

I was a little nervous about blogging at first, but I found a few good ladies via Twitter and their blogs and I could relate to them so well and they gave me the courage to start. I ran it by my husband and he thought it might help me with my thoughts. So my name is Sarah, I'm 26 years old and I've only been married for a year. But we dated for 2 years before. We are in a DD marriage. I knew he believed in a man should lead before we got married. His father is also the same way, which he has admitted he heard his dad spanking his mother one night when he was 14. The whole time we dated, he as very dominate. He made choices where we would eat and h even wasn't happy at times when I was late getting ready for a date. When he proposed to me, he told me how he thought a marriage should be. Old fashioned and taken from the bible about women submitting to their husbands. He said he just didn't like women who were disrespectful to their husbands and "wore the pants" in the marriage. He did explain that should I choose to not follow his rules than I would be disciplined through spanking and maybe corner time or grounding. At first I wasn't sure I could live like this. But the more time I spent with him, the more I realized I was so in love with him and really couldn't see myself without him.

Has being submissive to my husband been easy? No. He is pretty consistent and strict. The first spanking he gave me I was devastated over. I was so afraid before it.  I cried for 2 hours and he held me afterwards and comforted me. (In another post I'll make a entry about my first spanking.) After I was finally composed the next day, I was sore but I felt closer to my husband. I can't explain how I love that he won't let me walk all over him. I think real men shouldn't let their wives walk all over them and yell and tell them exactly what they will do and my husband has said the same. Do I like the spankings? NO I do not. But I want my marriage to last and I do think DD makes a marriage better. I kinda think if DD were used in all marriages the divorce rate would be lower. My husband said if men would discipline their wives when they were disrespectful and damaged the marriage then a lot of marriages would last so much longer. The pain is better than a failed marriage or me yelling at him and making him feel like crap or pushing him away or hurting myself.

The problem with the US today my husband said is that our society won't let men be men or women be women. They have taught us that women should be the boss and make all the say in a marriage. This lifestyle gives great special bonds also with a husband and wife. Just too bad we don't have many real men in the world today. I hope to be back on later and I'll blog some more. I do not have a limit as long as I have gotten my chores done and I've done what he has told me to do and has no plans for us. Hope to meet new people also who are like minded. I've come across a few people via twitter and in real life that really down grades submission. Two have recently really put me and my husband down. I guess he was just afraid of his wife lol which is sad to me.